March 30, 2009
Zip Your Lips
If the post-quarrel chill has him saying little besides “Please pass the salt,” your instinct may be to sit him down for a talk about why he’s not talking. Resist—he’s not up for another heavy discussion.
Instead, do something fun with him. Hit a hiking trail, explore a nearby town, or dance in the living room. “The activity draws your attention away from the fight,” explains Friel, and will get you chatting naturally. Then say, “Hey, I’m sorry we had a spat. I hate arguing with you.” The key: “Keep it short,” says Allen Berger, PhD, author of Love Secrets Revealed. If there are lingering unresolved issues, bring them up later.
Suck Up
If (and only if) the fight was truly your fault, help mend things with a small gift or treat. Pick up the latest issue of his fave magazine or a pint of ice cream you know he’ll devour. “Since guys are action-oriented, showing him you feel bad can be more powerful than saying it,” says Alan Fruzzetti, PhD, author of The High-Conflict Couple.
Try a Little Touching
No, we don’t mean throwing him down on the bed for makeup nooky. It’s tempting to indulge in a frisky reconciliation romp, but nonsexual physical contact is actually a better fuse. After a fight, sex “tends to be intense and aggressive because you’re on edge,” says Fruzzetti. Try holding his hand or cuddling while watching TV on the couch. Once that defensive vibe dissipates, you can get more intimate.
Do Your Own Thing
It’s hard when you’re feeling insecure about your bond, but hitting the gym or meeting a gal pal can do wonders. “Disengaging lets you clear your head,” says Friel. It also distracts you from obsessing on the yellfest. While you’re out and about, consider sending him a brief “I love you” text, suggests Fruzzetti.
Focus on the Future
Just like how looking forward to a vacation or night-out can help you survive a long day at work, bringing up things to do as a couple eases the tension. “When you make plans, the underlying message is that the foundation of your relationship is solid and you’re going to be okay,” says Berger. It can be anything from e-mailing him about a romantic locale you’d love to visit with him to asking if he wants to try out a new restaurant.
March 29, 2009
Im looking
I am looking for a man which has a full dedication to family
matters.He must have good traits and a very loving person. He must be
a God fearing Individual. I’m not here just because I’m looking for
soul mate or looking for the person that I’ve been wanting to share
my life with, but at wits end I’m looking after a person who would be
their by my side, loving me unconditionally, and taking care of me
for the rest of my life. I don’t really believe in posting to
some sites like this one of looking for my better half, but who I am
to conclude then?, I say that being or mingling with other people
from all parts of the world will serve my purpose being expose and
being every ones’ friend may it be through the net or meeting each
other if given a chance. PS: To those people who viewed my
profile, THANK YOU!
When I was checking on my comment box, I found this letter. There are really a lot of people who wanted to find their better half and I am hoping they could finally find them. Like how I wanted my corrupted sd memory card because of the virus from my laptop. I hope i could find time to look for replacement…
February 6, 2009
Common Mistakes Lovers Make on Valentine’s Day
1) Panic Planning:
Don’t wait to make your plans! Last-minute planning, when panic sets in, almost always ends in disappointment: the best reservations taken, the best resorts full. Thoughtful planning reaps romantic rewards.
2) Complicating the Day:
Keep it simple. Don’t overdo it with complicated plans and arrangements! Dinner at the perfect time at your favorite restaurant is a sure bet, but add a little surprise: bring a bottle of his favorite wine, or have the pianist play her favorite song.
3) Unrealistic Expectations
Don’t expect all your dreams to come true in one day! Love is made of many moments, and they can’t all be lived in one night. Enjoy, appreciate and put into perspective that one special moment you create for Valentine’s Day.
4) Overlooking the Little Touches
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February 5, 2009
1 Get away from it all
2 Don’t just go away on your next vacation; indulge in a romantic package with luscious extras
3 Celebrate an anniversary — any anniversary — with an anniversary trip
4 Expect the best — but get it for less
5 Request the honeymoon suite (even if you’re not married)
6 Order breakfast from room service — and don’t leave the room all day
7 Stock your own surprise in the minibar
8 "Hello, room service? Send up a bottle of your best Champagne, two flutes, and a strawberry delicacy"
9 Schedule a romantic dinner
10 Tell her how beautiful she is or how handsome he looks
11 Turn off the TV in your room; better yet, don’t turn it on at all
12 Hand out a stack of love coupons, redeemable at any time
13 Dress for bed
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January 8, 2009
Days continue to pass,
stars continue to shine.
Why do I have tears in my eyes today
when he was NEVER mine?
There’s only one thing I regret doing,
loving the girl who didn’t love me,
and forgetting the one who did.
The saddest thing in life is loving someone who used to love you.
The one who makes me the happiest,
is always the one who is already taken.
I wish you could look at me and see the person
you once loved instead of the person you have grown to hate.
Love… Why does it hurt?
Why does it ache?
Maybe because we love too much and too deep that
somteimes we forget to keep a little for ourselves…
sad but true.
If I could be anyone at this moment,
I’d be her so you’d love me too.
Should I smile because he’s my friend,
or cry because that’s all he is?
Love that we can not have
is the one that last the longest,
hurts the deepest and feels the strongest.
I am everything you want;
I am everything you need;
I am everything inside of you
that you wish you could be.
I say all the right things,
at exactly the right time,
but I mean nothing to you and I don’t know why?
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December 11, 2008
A best friend shares the good times and help you out by listening during the bad times.
One’s best friend is oneself.
A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the words.
Best friend is someone who knows all about you and loves you anyway.
Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born.
Never explain yourself. Your friends don’t need it and your enemies won’t believe it.
If all my friends were to jump off a bridge, I wouldn’t jump with them, I’d be at the bottom to catch them.
There is nothing worth the wear of winning, but laughter and the love of friends.
One who finds a faithful friend, finds a treasure.
A friend is a gift one give oneself.
My best friend is the someone who brings out the best of me.
The medicine of life is to have true faithful friends.
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December 8, 2008
REALIZE I LOVE YOU QUOTE
There is no surprise more magical than the surprise of being loved. It is God’s finger on man’s shoulder. ~Charles Morgan
You have to walk carefully in the beginning of love; the running across fields into your lover’s arms can only come later when you’re sure they won’t laugh if you trip. ~Jonathan Carroll, "Outside the Dog Museum"
Ah me! love can not be cured by herbs. ~Ovid
Love is the only sane and satisfactory answer to the problem of human existence. ~Eric Fromm
Love has no desire but to fulfill itself. To melt and be like a running brook that sings its melody to the night. To wake at dawn with a winged heart and give thanks for another day of loving. ~Kahlil Gibran
Infatuation is when you think he’s as sexy as Robert Redford, as smart as Henry Kissinger, as noble as Ralph Nader, as funny as Woody Allen, and as athletic as Jimmy Conners. Love is when you realize that he’s as sexy as Woody Allen, as smart as Jimmy Connors, as funny as Ralph Nader, as athletic as Henry Kissinger and nothing like Robert Redford - but you’ll take him anyway. ~Judith Viorst, Redbook, 1975
Love is only a dirty trick played on us to achieve continuation of the species. ~W. Somerset Maugham, A Writer’s Notebook, 1949
Life has taught us that love does not consist in gazing at each other but in looking outward together in the same direction. ~Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, Wind, Sand and Stars, 1939, translated from French by Lewis Galantière
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December 2, 2008
Love is the life of the soul. It is the harmony of the universe.
William Ellery Channing
The most precious possession that ever comes to a man in this world is a woman’s heart.
Timothy Titcomb
You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly.
Sam Keen
Love is always bestowed as a gift — freely, willingly, and without expectation…. We don’t love to be loved; we love to love.
Leo Buscaglia
Real love stories never have endings.
Richard Bach
Men always want to be a woman’s first love - women like to be a man’s last romance.
Oscar Wilde
What lies behind us, and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.
Ralph Waldo Emerson
The greatest thing you’ll ever learn
Is to love and be loved in return.
Natalie Cole
When you love someone, all your saved-up wishes start coming out.
Elizabeth Bowen
Love doesn’t make the world go ’round; love is what makes the ride whorthwhile.
Franklin P. Jones
Love builds bridges where there are none.
R.H. Delaney
You don’t marry someone you can live with - you marry the person who you cannot live without.
Unknown
Life has taught us that love does not consist in gazing at each other but in looking outward together in the same direction.
Saint-Exupery
If I could reach up and hold a star for every time you’ve made me smile, the entire evening sky would be in the palm of my hand.
Unknown
What lies behind us, and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us. Ralph Waldo Emerson
Love is not a matter of counting the years … But making the years count.
Michelle Amand
Love is a look that linketh noble minds, Faith is the key that shuts the spring of Love
Robert Greene
Love and desire are the spirit’s wings to great deeds.
Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
The most precious possession that ever comes to a man in this world Is a woman’s heart.
Josiah G. Holland
I have learned not to worry about love; But to honor its coming with all my heart.
Alice Walker
To love is to know the sacrifices which eternity exacts from life.
John Oliver Hobbes
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Corinthians
Love is a beautiful dream.
William Sharp
We were two and had but one heart.
Francois Villon
Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies.
Aristotle
Talking of love is making it.
William G. Benham
Those who love deeply never grown old; they may die of old age, but they die young.
Arthur Wing Pinero
Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, While loving someone deeply gives you courage.
Lao Tzu
Love is a force more formidable than any other. It is invisible - it cannot be seen or measured, yet it is powerful enough to transform you in a moment, and offer you more joy than any material possession could.
Barbara De Angelis
Where there is love there is life.
Gandhi
The most eloquent silence; that of two mouths meeting in a kiss.
Unknown
There is no remedy for love but to love more.
Thoreau
There is always some madness in love. But there is also always some reason in madness.
Friedrich Nietzsche
The minute I heard my first love story, I started looking for you, not knowing how blind that was. Lovers don’t finally meet somewhere. They’re in each other all along.
Maulana Jalalu’d din Rumi
You will find as you look back upon your life that the moments when you have truly lived are the moments when you have done things in the spirit of love.
Henry Drummond
Love consists in desiring to give what is our own to another and feeling his delight as our own.
Emanuel Swedenborg
The best feelings are those that have no words to describe them.
Michelle Hammersley
November 23, 2008
If you’re asking if I need you
the answer is forever,
If you’re asking if I’ll leave you
the answer is never,
If you’re asking what I value
the answer is you,
If you’re asking if I love you
the answer is I do
I love you with all of my heart,
body ,and soul.
You complete me.
You make my life worth living.
To have known you and to have loved
you has been the most beautiful dream.
I can only hope that I never wake up.
Never Say I love you
if you don’t really care,
never talk about feeling
if they aren’t really there.
Never hold my hand
if you’re going to break my heart.
Never say you’re to,
if you never plan to start.
Never look into my eyes
if all you do is lie.
Never say hello,
if you really mean goodbye.
If you really mean forever,
then say you will try.
Never say forever ‘
cause forever makes me cry.
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