WHAT EACH GESTURE MEANS:
- Holding Hands: We definitely like each other.
- Touching on the Butt: Your fun.
- Holding you tight pressed against each other: I want you.
- Looking into each other’s Eyes: I like you, for who you are.
- Playing with Hair: Let’s fool around.
- Arms around the Waist: I like you too much to let go.
- Laughing while Kissing: I am completely comfortable with you
November 21, 2009
What Each Kiss Mean
November 11, 2009
Sweet Kissing Tips
1.Make it romantic: Women prefer the charms of a seductive and romantic kiss that takes place in seclusion rather than a quick one in a situation that may lead to embarrassment. The kiss need not always start with a lip-lock. Small kisses on the eyelids, nose, and cheeks can set the mood for a sweet French kiss.
2. Hygiene: The importance of oral hygiene cannot be overstated. For all your kissing skills, it is critical that your breath is clean. This assumes greater significance if you plan to get romantic with your partner after eating. It is best to have a breath freshener at hand for such occasions.
3. Keep the momentum: This can mean a lot of things, all of them guaranteed to heighten the kissing experience. Either partner can be the tease and break away from a kiss just that bit early leaving the other one asking for more.
4. Caress her: Women often like to be caressed while kissing. You can start by caressing her hair from her forehead to her neck behind her ear and then gently feel her back. Alternate between using the full face of the palm and your fingertips.
5. Use your tongue: Learn to use your tongue skillfully while kissing. Circling the tip of your partner’s tongue with your tongue lightly takes both partners further down the road to intimacy. Flick your tongue over hers; surprise her with your dexterity with your tongue. Sucking your partner’s tongue while kissing is considered incredibly erotic by some (but be careful! Some women don’t like it).
6. Experiment: There are several ways in which couples can add spice to their kissing experiences. Peppermint and chocolates add flavor to a kiss; partners can try to pass a small ice cube between their mouths while kissing; the roof of your partner’s mouth is highly sensitive and feeling it lightly with the tip of your tongue is bound to offer a pleasant surprise to your partner.
7. Ask your partner: The most important aspect of any intimate experience is the comfort level with your partner and kissing is no different. Ask your partner about what constitutes her dream kiss, learn about what she likes in a kiss and try to give it to her in your personalized way.
November 9, 2009
Effective Kissing Advices
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If you really like a guy, society’s stereotypes might make you feel that the guy should do all the moves, such as approaching or starting a conversation. Most guys, however, would enjoy if the girl made the first move! So it you like some guy, approach him and chat him up, he’ll be flattered
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You can take the lead if you want to, but some guys might not like it or feel intimidated if you attempt to take a lead. If he’s somewhat passive guy, then you might take the lead yourself and he might appreciate it. Look at the situation and if you feel like the guy you like is hesitant or doesn’t know what to do, take charge
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It is acceptable to let the guy pay, however, it is courteous thing to ask him to pay your fair share. If he still wants to pay, let him
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Whether or not to kiss your guy first is something that has to be personally decided upon the situation. If the guy is shy and reserved, but clearly likes you, you may try to initiate touching and then maybe even kiss him. Usually if the guy likes you and you’re receptive to his advances, he will kiss you
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You can make your date feel important if you’re making him feel like you’re enjoying his company by complimenting him. Guys love compliments just as much as girls
Define Movie Kiss
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Let the tension between you build… it’s not even tension, but rather flirtatious electricity where you feel very good and your partner is smiling and giving you indicators of interest (such as flirting back and holding your hands and softly touching you)
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As you embrace each other, if you’re a guy, stroke your girlfriend’s hair softly while looking into her eyes
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If you’re a girl, you can try to stroke your guy’s hair or you can just flirtatiously smile
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Then as you’re looking at each other, slowly move your head a bit forward
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If you see your partner’s head move slightly into your direction rather than away from it, you can start moving in closer and closer until your lips meet.
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If your partner’s head doesn’t seem to be moving into your direction as you move your lips towards their lips and you can sense they are uncomfortable, maybe they are nervous and you should build more comfort and try again later
Another Sexy Kissing Tips
- I play a kissing game with my wife. The object of the game is to make your partner try to kiss you. This could be done by lightly kissing her neck, breathing into her ear, kissing her cheeks, and lightly kissing her lips. Whoever lasts the longest wins!
- Sensually whisper something a litte bit naughty in their ear such as “I want you…” or make up your own. Let them feel your breath next to their ear, then kiss it and gently nibble it. Move down towards their neck and back up to their lips. This drives my husband crazy!
- When kissing…try to catch his/her upper lip between your lips as you’re closing your mouth, and suck lightly before letting go.
- When kissing really passionately, stroke the nape of his neck with your fingers.
Sexy Kissing Tips
- If she is laying down draw one of her arms above her head and lightly hold her hand. Commence by kissing the soft area on the inside of her upper arm - from her elbow down to her chest. For variation, trail the tip of your tongue in a zigzag down this area. This absolutely drives my wife crazy! (submitted by Troy)
- Kiss her gently near the clavicle (colar bone), then run your tongue in a zig zag up to her ear very slowly. Give her earlobe a little nibble. It’s all in the neck guys… (submitted by Dave)
- When you’re sitting close to your love, start out by softly stroking their face, slowly move your hand to their mouth then very lightly brush the lower lip with one of your fingers. If they seem to love this, then place the tip of that finger in their mouth. My boyfriend loves this, and sometimes he’ll start sucking my finger a bit. This leads to a great french kiss! (submitted by KC)
- Gently kiss your partner on the neck, cheek, jaw, and slowly move closer to his/her lips. When you reach their lips, they will be all the more excited to kiss you! My boyfriend sometimes does this and it drives me crazy! (submitted by Christi)
- Start by pouring a glass of wine. Take a few sips to get the taste in your mouth. When you lead him to bed, bring the wine with you. While kissing him, dip your finger in the wine. Trace his lips and mouth with your wine-soaked finger and lick the wine off slowly and gently. Take your time. Kissing can be very erotic.
March 6, 2009
Don’ts of Kissing
Don’t use too much tongue.
Don’t mash your lips against your partner’s.
Don’t look terrified when the other person approaches you for a kiss.
Do not talk about a first kiss with the person you’re going to kiss for the first time. This will ruin the excitement and may turn down expectations.
Don’t salivate all over your partner while kissing.
Don’t just let your partner do all the work during the kiss.
Don’t eat garlic or other harsh foods before a kiss. This is true..Maybe you can eat some sweet fruits like grapes or the fruit that comes from Blackberry plants
Don’t remain emotionless after the kiss.
Don’t wait until the 20th date to kiss her/him.
Don’t open your mouth so wide that it feels like you are sucking the other person in.
Don’t have the first kiss with someone in public in front of others.
Do’s of Kissing
Only use enough tongue to feel the other person’s tongue.
Be gentle with the first kiss.
Smile after you kiss. Or in the least laugh or giggle to show some emotion.
Swallow periodically during the kiss.
Participate in the kiss.
Make sure your breath is fresh by either brushing your teeth or having a mint or piece of gum.
It is OK to kiss someone on the first date.
And if not the first date at least during the second.
Always make sure the first kiss is when the two of you are alone.
Kissing Techinique
Open Lips - Open your mouth slightly and place your lips over your partner’s lips. Do not hold your breath! Breath through your nose. As your lips meet, press them gently over your partner’s. You may wish to move your lips in a slow, circular motion or just leave them still over your partners.
This is one of the basic and common kiss that most of the couples do enjoy. It is very exciting and more exciting if done right and in the dark..hahaha Just don’t be caught by led lights that are usually used by parking lots that really made a good light…
French Kissing
This is the most popular type of kiss. This involves touching your tongue with your partner’s and it can be quite a pleasant experience. There are a few tips to create a great french kiss.
Lips - You may explore different ways of using your tongue. Try running the tip of your tongue over your partner’s lips. Do this slowly and gently, just using the tip of your tongue.
Tongue - Place the tip of your tongue on the tip of your partner’s tongue. Do not force your tongue too far into their mouth. If you wish, you can play with their tongue by circling theirs with your own. Have fun with it. Explore.
Open Lips - Open your lips over your partner’s slightly more than you would during a regular kiss. This makes it easier to place your tongue in your partner’s mouth.