Hi Vic,
I am falling in love with my best friend as well. We have been best friends since we were 14 and we are 24 now. We have never been intimate until about a month ago. We’ve always said that when we are 30 we will get married if we are both single. Well, now I am wanting him sooner than that. It’s really driving me crazy inside because I’ve never thought I’d feel this away about him. I’ve asked so many people what they think I should do and I get all kinds of different answers so now I’m more confused than I was in the beginning. The best advice I got was from my mom. I know that’s kinda cheezy but my mom gives good advice. She says to just follow my heart and not listen to what everyone else is telling me. If it feels right, do it. If it doesn’t maybe you should hold back for a little while until the timing feels better. I am going to try to tell my friend over the weekend how I feel but I’m going to wait until I see how things feel when I see him.
Good luck with your situation and everything will work out the way it’s supposed to. You should post on here to let us all know how it goes.
Angie
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