Things You Can Learn About a Guy
Credit vs. Cash
A guy who likes to flash his plastic 6 craves status. "He may be ambitious and confident. He’ll reach his financial goals," says Rob Ronin, PsyD, a licensed clinical psychologist and registered financial consultant. "If he always pays in cash, 7 he’s self-sufficient and independent," which might make him a difficult dude to corner. And if his wallet is dry? 8 Here’s a guy who’s dependent on others to take care of him.
His Bad HabitsGambling men 9 are risk-takers, which can make them a lot of fun. "But their over-the-top optimism that they’ll come out ahead makes it difficult for them to face reality," says Mitchell Parks, MD, assistant professor of psychiatry at Vanderbilt University, in Nashville. "Hard-core smokers 10 tend to be anxious," says Dr. Parks, so it can be hard to pin them down for couple-time. And if he’s a boozer, 11 he could be hiding his insecurity behind his buzz.
His Communication StyleWhen your date opts to email you — rather than call — 12 he could be a hard nut to crack. "The fact that he chooses a communication method that allows him to edit what he says signals that he might not want to show his true self," says Jeff Bryson, PhD, professor of psychology at San Diego State University. An IM addict 13 craves your nonstop attention and needs that instant assurance that you’re there for him. And the phone fan? 14 He might be a little old-fashioned and likes to do things by the book. But, according to Bryson, "he’s not afraid of intimacy."
The Clothes You Wear That He PrefersIf your fave T-shirt and jeans or a cute little sundress do more for him than your slinky black number, 15 you’re dating an earthy, laid-back guy who likes equally laid-back, low-maintenance chicks. A man who’s wowed by a woman who likes to get dolled up in high-end designer duds 16 places a high priority on prestige. "He’ll probably make a lot of money, but it also might play too important a role in his life," says Los Angeles clinical psychologist Nancy Irwin, PsyD. And a guy who wants a Carmen Electra-sensual girl on his arm 17 is looking for an ego boost. "He places a lot of value on being admired and envied."
How He Deals With TrafficIf he constantly weaves in and out of cars, tailgates slowpokes, and glares at other drivers, 18 "it’s pretty clear that he has a problem with aggression," says Leon James, PhD, professor of psychology at the (more…)
January 25, 2009
Signs a guy likes you
Does he like you? Is he into you, or not?
How to know the answer? What are the tell-tale signs that he is into you?
Well, besides using your woman’s intuition which is not something I can describe here nor teach, I’ll do my best to "simplify" this complicated thing call "love".
10 Signs That He Likes You
1. Watching the same movie twice
He’s seen the movie. Although he wasn’t very impressed with it, but because you haven’t catch it he suddenly changed his tune and said he really would like to watch it a second time.
And so by the way, if you haven’t seen it too, why not let’s go catch it together, he asked.
You know his intention is then not on the movie, but the company really.
So girls, do not expose his true intentions. It’s enough to know the underlying truth, be appreciative ok?
2. His car is playing songs that just sound too, familiar?
Because those are your favorites! You have merely casually mentioned to him once, and the next time he drives you, you’re in for a musical feast.
Is he always so attentive to everyone’s needs and preferences? Well, you observe how he interacts with others and you tell me.
3. He asks that question!
Well, he will try to be as casual and nonchalant about it as possible. But no matter how cool he acts, deep down inside he is burning and dying to know the answer to this question:
"So, are you single?"
If your answer is yes, then this will be the next one:
"No way. How can someone like you be single? You mean, you don’t have a boyfriend?"
Now watch his body language closely. If you notice he is feeling tensed up by now, and totally relieved when your answer is "No" then you get the message.
4. He asks for a follow-up date even before the date is over
Now if he isn’t interested in you, why would a man be so anxious to "book" your time for another date with him even when the date is only half-way through?
Unless you look like Jessica Alba, or you can give him a million-dollar job like Donald Trump. If you aren’t either one of the two or belong to either one of the category, then this can be a clue to his heart…
5. Your name is not foreign to his friends
If you do get a chance to meet up with his friends, which you know you can create such opportunities, you’ll get some nice juicy bits from them.
But this may not be very fool-proof, neither are all of these signs, but if his friends raise their eyebrows or grin sheepishly when he introduces you to them, then that means word has been around within that gang on someone in particular, which could very well be you.
6. He can’t remove his eyes from you
Ok, we know that’s not the kind of stare-through-your-clothes type, but rather a slightly more loving kind of gaze that speaks of admiration and liking.
If the eyes could speak, they may just pop this question on behalf of their owner "You are the most beautiful lady I’ve ever seen. Would you like to be more than friends?"
The best test? When a bombshell or super gorgeous babe sashays past, you need to alert him before he notices her. (Of course, this is really carrying it a little far ha ha…. what does it take to stop a man’s roving eyes? I can’t find the answer yet)
7. He prompts you
Every now and then, he will find a chance to ask you what type of guy you are attracted to and are looking for in a partner.
Unless he’s doing what I’m doing (which puts me in a really privileged position to ask ha ha), what business is it for him to know what kind of man you like if not for the fact that he is secretly plotting his way to become the most suitable candidate?
(more…)Unrequited Love Quotes
A mighty pain to love it is,
And ’tis a pain that pain to miss;
But of all pains, the greatest pain
It is to love, but love in vain.
Abraham Cowley
Love is never lost. If not reciprocated, it will flow back and soften and purify the heart.
Washington Irving
Nothing takes the taste out of peanut butter quite like unrequited love.
Charlie Brown
An act of love that fails is just as much a part of the divine life as an act of love that succeeds, for love is measured by fullness, not by reception.
Harold Lokes
The saddest thing in the world, is loving someone who used to love you.
Anonymous
You never lose by loving. You always lost by holding back.
Anon
January 21, 2009
Ways to Propose
- Hide it in food while eating in a fancy restaurant.
- Movie Theatre
- In the sand
- Sky banner
- At the Eiffel Tower
- Where you first met
- At a game
- Re-enact a movie
- In candles
- On a poster or bill board with the picture of her and an engagement ring that you know will amaze her. (more…)
Letting Go Quote
Good-bye. I am leaving because I am bored - George Sander.
A man never knows how to say goodbye; a woman never knows when to say it - Helen Rowland.
Nothing makes the earth seem so spacious as to have friends at a distance; they make the latitudes and longitudes - Henry David Thoreau.
Never part without loving words to think of during your absence. It may be that you will not meet again in this life - Jean Paul Richter.
Where is the good in goodbye? - Meredith Willson.
They say money talks, but the only thing it ever says to me is goodbye - Paul Waner.
That money talks I’ll not deny, I heard it once, it said “Goodbye” - Richard Armour.
Don’t be dismayed at goodbyes. A farewell is necessary before you can meet again. And meeting again, after moments or lifetime, is certain for those who are friends - Richard Bach.
Goodbye, goodbye, I hate the word. Solitude has long since turned brown and withered, sitting bitter in my mouth and heavy in my veins - R.M. Grenon.
Keep cold, young orchard. Goodbye and keep cold. / Dread fifty above more than fifty below - Robert Frost.
Goodbye, I never wanna see you again. Goodbye, I dont want to be your friend and theres no need for me to stay and lose myself to you. And be abused by you. I dont need the pain from your mind games. When you try them again, I wont be there for them to work anymore - Save Ferris.
Saying goodbye doesn’t mean anything. It’s the time we spent together that matters, not how we left it - Trey Parker.
Good-bye - good bye, all. It is God’s way. His will, not ours, be done. Nearer my God to Thee, nearer to Thee - William McKinley.
Break-Up Warning Signs
1. Picking fights. No one is saying you have to get along 24/7. Constructive conflict can actually be good for your relationship. But if you find that your partner has become argumentative over petty issues like your clothes or choice of restaurant, that should serve as a warning sign that he/she may be looking for an excuse to bail.
2. Forgetting to call. Used to be that your phone would ring all day long with your sweetie wanting to make plans or calling just to say, "I love you." Now your significant other doesn’t even call when he/she is running three hours late. It may seem obvious, but going from speed dial to a blocked number is a sure sign that your relationship may be nearing its expiration date.
3. Changing their stripes. A major change in appearance can be a sign that your partner is looking toward greener pastures. Whether they’ve chopped off their hair, lost 40 pounds or gone from a bold brunette to a sultry blonde, major cosmetic changes should be noted. Of course, there’s nothing wrong with being a little vain, but if the change is accompanied by any of the other signs listed here, you may need to get ready to go solo.
4. Criticizing. If your sweetie isn’t feeling you anymore, don’t be surprised if he/she becomes less tolerant of everything, from how you brush your teeth to how you tie (more…)
January 19, 2009
Perfect Valentines Marquise Diamond Engagement Ring
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Kissing Couple
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Romantic Picture
"Meeting you was fate, becoming your friend was choice, falling in love with you was beyong your control" quote was really cute. It was lovely and romantic and it reminds me of the upcoming Valentines day. This picture is cute and lovely to be hang on the wall and above bedroom. Hmm speaking of bedroom, I saw a beautiful bed frames in my officemate’s house and I kindda like it. It is so girly and very durable.. Hoping to have one someday really….