December 25, 2008

Dating Personals Profile Mistakes

Filed under: Online advice
  • #1 - Profiles With No Photos
  • Depending on which research you believe, the photo represents anywhere from 50 to 90 percent of your first impression. Omitting photos also creates a first impression: it may signal you have something to hide or that you’re not proud of the way you look.
  • #2 - Photos That Look Too Good to Be True
  • Might someone confuse your photos with a magazine spread? If so, it’s possible your photos look too good. Prospects will begin to wonder if the real-life version of you will look anything like the model depicted in the profile.
  • #3 - Screen Names That Are Too Cutesy. An original idea for a screen name hits you like a bolt of lightning. You’ll call yourself LuvDamesNoGames. Yes it rhymes, but might the word "dames" offend some prospects and send the signal you’re old-fashioned?
  • #4 - Profiles That Read Like Generic Ads
  • Sure, you’re anxious to get online and surf for prospects. That doesn’t mean you should rush your profile and fill in the first thing that comes to your mind. If your profile reads like everyone else’s, it simply won’t stand out from the crowd.
  • #5 - Profiles With Contradictory Information
  • In the opening paragraph you detail your desire for a serious relationship. But later in the profile you rave about the benefits of casual dating. Contradicting yourself confuses prospects and makes them believe you have no idea what you want.
  • #6 - Photos With Friends
  • Maybe you want to send the message that you’re a social creature. Unfortunately, prospects will (more…)

    December 19, 2008

    Letting Go Quotes

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    Breathe. Let go. And remind yourself that this very moment is the only one you know you have for sure.
    — Oprah Winfrey

    By letting it go it all gets done. The world is won by those who let it go. But when you try and try. The world is beyond the winning.
    — Lao Tzu

    Courage is the power to let go of the familiar.
    — Raymond Lindquist

    Creativity can be described as letting go of certainties,
    — Gail Sheehy

    Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward.
    — Author Unknown

    Hanging onto resentment is letting someone you despise live rent-free in your head.
    — Ann Landers

    Inner peace can be reached only when we practice forgiveness. Forgiveness is letting go of the past, and is therefore the means for correcting our misperceptions.
    — Gerald Jampolsky

    Let go. Why do you cling to pain? There is nothing you can do about the wrongs of yesterday. It is not yours to judge. Why hold on to the very thing which keeps you from hope and love?
    — Leo Buscaglia

    Letting go doesn’t mean giving up, but rather accepting that there are things that cannot be.
    — Anon

    Loving someone is setting them free, letting them go.
    — Kate Winslet

    People have a hard time letting go of their suffering. Out of a fear of the unknown, they prefer suffering that is familiar.
    — Thich Nhat Hanh

    Some think it’s holding on that makes one strong; sometimes it’s letting go.
    — Sylvia Robinson

    Sometimes being a friend means mastering the art of timing. There is a time for silence. A time to let go and allow people to hurl themselves into their own destiny. And a time to prepare to pick up the pieces when it’s all over.
    — Gloria Naylor

    Stand up and walk out of your history.
    — Phil McGraw

    The harder you fight to hold on to specific assumptions, the more likely there’s gold in letting go of them.
    — John Seely Brown

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    Quotes

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    You can never buy beer, you just rent it. – "Archie Bunker"

    Pretty women make us BUY beer. Ugly women make us DRINK beer. – Al Bundy

    Do not cease to drink beer, to eat, to intoxicate thyself, to make love, and to celebrate the good days. – Ancient Egyptian Credo

    The mouth of a perfectly happy man is filled with beer. – Ancient Egyptian wisdom

    I fear the man who drinks water and so remembers this morning what the rest of us said last night. – Ancient Greek proverb

    God has a brown voice, as soft and full as beer. – Anne Sexton

    Reality is an illusion that occurs due to the lack of alcohol. – Anonymous

    Beauty lies in the hands of the beerholder. – Anonymous

    Life is a waste of time, time is a waste of life, so get wasted all of the time and have the time of your life. – Anonymous

    Life is too short to drink cheap beer. – Anonymous

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    December 13, 2008

    Things Men Should Know About Women

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    Things Men Should Know About Women

    1. When she’s arguing with her friend, your friend, or especially her mother, always take her side.
    2. Although you have swapped saliva, toothbrushes are not meant to be shared.
    3. If you’re getting ready at the same time, let the woman have the bathroom mirror first. Do not get in her way. This works out best for everyone. Trust me.
    4. When asked, "Which of my friends do you think are hot?," there is only one correct answer: "None."
    5. Although you say you love it when we don’t wear makeup, you’re wrong. Even when you think we’re not wearing makeup, we’re wearing makeup.
    6. Don’t be misled: The Olympics do not represent a new status quo of TV sports viewing. When gymnastics ends, SportsCenter will not take its place.
    7. Women pee sitting down. On a toilet seat. Preferably one that’s clean.
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    Secrets of Women Don’t Want Men to Know

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    Blonds aren’t always dumb- If you thought all of them were dumb than you are strongly mistaken. Hair colour does not affect a person’s IQ. They only act dumb to seem cute or get you to spend money on them and if you do that than you are dumb not them.

    Women get jealous as hell- They might deny it but the fact is they get extremely jealous even if their man talks to a random female or maybe a friend. She might pretend to act all nice but inside her jealousy volcano is about to erupt.

    I am the sexiest of them all- Every woman has this mind frame no matter how much they try to deny it. Almost every woman wants to feel like the one and only beauty queen in the world as if nothing compares and demand royal treatment from all men.

    Am I fat- I know you’ve heard this one time and again but let’s all admit to it officially! No matter how skinny she is she would never consider herself thin. Almost every woman occasionally asks this annoying question- "Am I looking fat in this honey?”

    They always lie about shopping- They might be out grocery shopping but always end up getting something for themselves which they thought was cute. They either try to hide it or lie about its price saying it was on sale.

    Don’t share secrets with them- If you have than you are already on prime time radio. Almost every woman shares each and every secret with her friends. They tend to share their secrets over a cup of coffee and have a good laugh over it. And yeh when I say secrets it means your private secrets as well ( he he) if you (more…)

    Romantic Gestures

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    Romantic Gestures

    Feed him/her.

    Fill the ceiling of a room full of balloons with ribbons that reached the floor.

    Sing to him/her under his/her house.

    Hold doors for her.

    Tell her how beautiful she is.

    Play in the park like when you were kids Throw snowballs, or jump in leaf piles. Splash in puddles..

    Wash her hair for her. She’ll love it.

    Hold Hands.

    Take a walk together.

    Spread rose petals all over the bedroom, or bathroom, or anywhere.

    Rub massage oils on her lower back.

    Share an ice cream.

    Go public with your love

    Undress each other with your eyes closed.

    Dance under a slow music.

    Kiss your partner awake in the morning.

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    Christmas Gift for yourself

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    You have made a lot of things this year and the best you can do is to treat yourself. Do not forget to pamper yourself sometimes like going to spa or have some nice vacation. Or maybe you can keep yourself healthy and slow down the aging process. Maybe you can use leptovox or vistit your dermatologist for more information. But I suggest that you should do it at least twice a year or even once a year. This is a good Christmas gift for yourself.

    Touch as Flirting tips

    Touch is a powerful communication tool, especially when using it to flirt. Touch can advance the relationship. Since men tend to misinterpret women’s gesture of touch, be cautious – the inappropriate use of touch can ruin your chances of romance. To start, touches should be initially in the universally acceptable areas and levels. A brief touch on the arm is used to draw attention to you. If your guy finds you likeable or attractive, this should prompt some reciprocal increase in his level of interest in you. While this may not be obvious, as in him touching your arm, you should look for positive body-language signs, such as increased eye contact, moving closer to you, more smiling. If you get a positive response, try touching his hand and leaving your hand on his for a couple of seconds. Do this a few times. If you continue to see positive body-language chances are that his level of interest matches your.

    Cool Dating Tips

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    They say that dating is one of the icing on the relationship and you have to enjoy it. In dating, always remember to Be yourself: If you want to be attractive for the eyes of your date, it is fine. Just don’t over do it.iIf you think that you wanted to lose weight before your date then you can do some exercise or use lipovox. But if you feel that it is fine then it is okey. You rather than try to meet an unrealistic ideal, focus on being the best person inside and out that you want to be. That confidence and honesty will attract dates who respect and value you as an individual rather than a trophy.
    December 11, 2008

    Best Friend Quotes

    A best friend shares the good times and help you out by listening during the bad times.

    One’s best friend is oneself.

    A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the words.

    Best friend is someone who knows all about you and loves you anyway.

    Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born.

    Never explain yourself. Your friends don’t need it and your enemies won’t believe it.

    If all my friends were to jump off a bridge, I wouldn’t jump with them, I’d be at the bottom to catch them.

    There is nothing worth the wear of winning, but laughter and the love of friends.

    One who finds a faithful friend, finds a treasure.

    A friend is a gift one give oneself.

    My best friend is the someone who brings out the best of me.

    The medicine of life is to have true faithful friends.

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