Asking others opinions and she had taking a poll of what others thought. All along I thought I had a trusting and believing future spouse only to have the rude awakening that this was going on in the background. I felt violated. Maybe I am just too sensitive or maybe I just put too much value in honesty but the gut wrenching feeling I have appears to be giving me second thoughts about any future with her. I found that the image I had of our relationship was not true. I had opened myself and my history to her. Thinking she trusted me I felt confidence in her and our growth. Now it feels and looks like just a very close relationship but not a person I would marry. The lack of belief in me, and the lack of trust that I have been truthful, has brought me to tears. So yes DOUBT DESTROYS.
source: blurtit.com/forandagainst/In_Every_Relationship_Doubt_Is_The_Main_Enemy