November 27, 2008
Towards the Woman
One of the classics is giving flowers. However, do note that many women actually prefer special flowers or even better planted flowers as they last months rather than days.
Wait for your partner to go to bed. If you’ve spent the evening together, go to bed together…even when sex isn’t in the picture. It shows caring beyond physicality. Good night my love.
Send a dozen roses: 11 red roses and 1 white one. Make a note saying "In every bunch there’s one who stands out - and you are that one."
Be a gentleman. Play on old deeds of ‘man’ and ‘woman.’ This means holding the door for her when entering/exiting a building. Or if out dining, make sure her glass is not empty, help her with her chair when she leaves or approaches her seat. Be a gentleman, even if it is only for one night. Remember to make sure she helps you being a gentleman, e.g. by not swiftly leaving the table, but allowing you to help with the chair, etc. Also just before you walk away from her, kiss her hand and smile slightly, but don’t say anything.
Put a new piece of jewelry in her jewelry box and wait for her to notice it.
This is mostly for women, though could be transferred to men: As a kind of gift, give her a home made "coupon" for something like one free kiss or one free massage. Quite often, she won’t take up on the offer, and will instead just keep the coupon as a memory.
Take the time to write a poem, even if it is a bit goofy. She will appreciate that you cared enough to do it.
Take her out on a date that is all about catering to her desires (i.e. a movie or restaurant or club or arcade that you know she likes but you’re not normally into). Just something special to let her know you pay attention to her desires.
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