- A lack of trust
- Doubt feels icky
- Financial stress
- Jealousy (more…)
November 30, 2008
Factors that Destroy Relationships
DOUBT is Destructive in Relationship
Asking others opinions and she had taking a poll of what others thought. All along I thought I had a trusting and believing future spouse only to have the rude awakening that this was going on in the background. I felt violated. Maybe I am just too sensitive or maybe I just put too much value in honesty but the gut wrenching feeling I have appears to be giving me second thoughts about any future with her. I found that the image I had of our relationship was not true. I had opened myself and my history to her. Thinking she trusted me I felt confidence in her and our growth. Now it feels and looks like just a very close relationship but not a person (more…)
Christmas Gift for your Loveones
Christmas is one the way and Christmas rush is very popular nowadays. It is recommended that if you have your saving now I mean extra savings, you can start buying for the gifts or even some goodies that can’t be spoil of few weeks before the holiday. This is to avoid Christmas rush like what we did last year with my sister. She bought a sexy lingerie for her soon to be bride office mate that took us 3 hours in paying that one item.
November 27, 2008
Ways to Get Into a Man’s Head
Ways to Get Into a Man’s Head
- Let him know you care about what he is saying. A man won’t open up to you unless he knows you care. One of the best ways to convey this to him is through your body language. To show your interest, unfold your arms, lean into him and allow your eyes to meet his in a natural way.
- Be nonjudgmental. No man is going to let you into his real thoughts if he senses he is going to be criticized or put down. Leave out comments like "How could you do something like that?" or "That’s not something I would do."
- Don’t use the word "why." When psychotherapists are in training, they are often taught to erase the word "why" from their vocabulary, because "why" questions frequently sound negative and critical. (more…)
To be Romantic towards Women
Towards the Woman
November 26, 2008
To be Romantic towards Man
To be Romantic towards Man
Take your man to a coffee house. It’s relatively cheap and they provide a nice atmosphere and plenty of games. If not, bring a deck of cards or another small sized game and have fun a couple of hours with something nice to drink and playing games.
Don’t be afraid to tell your man when he’s aroused you, tell him teasing how he’s leading you into temptation and then kiss him. He will feel like the luckiest man alive.
If you have a romantic man, remember that it goes both ways. If they like to kiss you, they like to be kissed.
(more…)To be Romantic to your partner
To be Romantic to your partner.
How to Be Romantic
How to Be Romantic ?
1. Break the monotony. Many people associate the beginning of a relationship with romance, excitement and inspiration because everything is new. You’ve just met this person and the relationship is unfolding–what will happen tomorrow? Next week? Next month? Will he call? Will we kiss? Will she visit? But after the relationship is established, we settle into a routine, and nothing is new anymore. To be romantic, to reintroduce the excitement that characterized the beginning of the relationship, do something different, something that your partner wouldn’t expect. The more out of the ordinary, the better!
2. Court them. Pretend that you and the person just met, and you want the person to fall for you. What would you do to impress them? To show them that you’re interested? To win them over? Treat your partner like they’re single, like you’re trying to earn their affection and trust. The opposite of being romanced is being taken for granted. No one wants to feel like they’ve already been "caught" and it’s over and done with. Put on a show! Stay on your toes! The most romantic ideas come to people when they fear they might lose the one they love. But you don’t have to actually be on the verge of losing someone in order to tap into that mindset!
3. Make it personal. Romance is not "one-size-fits-all." The stereotypical icons of romance (roses, candles and chocolate) can only go so far. Think about what really gets that special someone excited. Recognize what makes your partner unique, and find/do things for them that only they would appreciate. What are their quirky (perhaps secret) interests, obsessions and fantasies? Whenever they’re shopping, talking, or watching a movie, what makes their eyes light up? Pay attention! Being romantic means acknowledging how special a person is, and that means demonstrating that you know–better than anyone else in the world–what makes them unique.
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November 25, 2008
Broken Heart Quotes
It really hurts when you expected
so much more from the person
you once loved so much.
I wish I was a kid again,
because skinned knees are
easier to fix then broken hearts.
Oftentimes we say goodbye to the person
we love without wanting to.
Though that doesn’t mean that
we’ve stopped loving them
or we’ve stopped to care.
Sometimes goodbye is
a painful way to say I love you.
It’s like my mind knows what’s right
but my heart is being retarded and still cares
Lost Love Quotes
I was finally getting over you and actually believing I didn’t need you. I was finally accepting you had another girl. Then you smiled at me and ruined it all.
Loving you was easy, losing you was hard. Loving you is still easy, but knowing you are no longer mine, is the hardest of it all.
Love is letting go of the one you love, hoping that they will come back to you when they realize what they have lost.
Why is it that I finally convince my mind that I am over you, then I see you and my heart takes over and screws everything up? Why do you have that power over me if we cannot be together?