July 31, 2008

Romatic Picture

Filed under: Romantic places

 Romatic Picture

I saw this one on my documents in an internet cafe and decided to post it on this blog. I find it relevant and nice! 

July 27, 2008

What is Fair Fight?

Filed under: Online advice

I was stunned when I read this but I would like this to share to all of you.

Fair Fight Guidelines

  • Remember the point of the fight is to reach a solution, not to win, be right, or make your partner wrong.
  • Don’t try to mind read. Ask instead what he or she is thinking.
  • Don’t bring up all the prior problems that relate to this one. Leave the past in the past; keep this about one recent problem. Solve one thing at a time.
  • Keep the process simple. State the problem, suggest some alternatives, and choose a solution together.
  • Don’t talk too much at once. Keep your statements to two or three sentences. Your partner will not be able to grasp more than that.
  • Give your partner a chance to respond and to suggest options.
  • Practice equality. If something is important enough to one of you, it will inevitably be important to both of you, so honor your partner’s need to solve a problem.
  • Ask and Answer questions directly. Again, keep it as simple as possible. Let your partner know you hear him or her.
  • State your problem as a request, not a demand. To make it a positive request, use "I messages" and "please".
  • Don’t use power struggle tactics: guilt and obligation, threats and emotional blackmail, courtroom logic: peacekeeping, sacrificing, or hammering away are off limits.
  • Know your facts: If you’re going to fight for something, know the facts about the problem: Do research, find out what options are available, and know how you feel and what would solve the problem for you.
  • Ask for changes in behavior, don’t criticize character, ethics or morals.
  • Don’t fight over who’s right or wrong. Opinions are opinions, and that won’t solve the problem. Instead, focus on what will work.
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    How to have a clear skin on your date

    Filed under: Online advice

    If you have a date and you have a worst acne ever. Acne is the worst kind of pimples. This is cause by diet, heredity, Poor hygiene, stress and hormone imbalances. But there are ways to prevent it by choosing the right food to eat and by taking care of your skin. Cucumber is known is one of the helpful remedies of acne. What to do? Simply peeled cucumber and put it in a blender. After that apply the blended juice to the acne. Another thing is to simply drink 4 or 5 cups of cucumber juice daily. It will purify the blood and lymphatic system, that results in a clearer skin. On my part, I visited a dermatologist and have a consultation. And after a month, all my pimples and acne below my mouth was completely removed. Visiting dermatologist is also recommended for acne cure. So now you are ready for a date.

    Ways to Preventing Petty Arguments

    Filed under: Online advice
    1. Don’t taunt your mate. Avoid the temptation to do or say those things that you know irritate your mate. This includes constant teasing, ridicule, and gestures that send your mate into a tizzy or rage. Also, avoid the body-language "comments" ranging from rolling your eyes to smirking sarcastically.
    2. Change the subject. If it appears you’re going down that familiar trail of bickering, ambush the conversation by jumping in with a comment on a more pleasant topic.
    3. Keep to your agreements. If you say you will be on time or pick up your dirty socks, then do it. Flaking on a small agreement can escalate into something bigger. Making agreements and not keeping them — minor or major — can set the stage for constant arguing, and no couple needs that.
    4. Hold your tongue. Though you may want to blurt out a criticism or a snide remark, restrain yourself. When you decide to keep some remarks to yourself, you may avoid petty arguments altogether. Remember that old adage: "If you can’t say anything nice…"
    5. Don’t engage. Another famous saying: "It takes two to tango." If you refuse to play the bickering game when your mate starts in, he/she will have to look elsewhere to direct his/her jabs.
    6. Forget about being right. It is oh-so tempting to want to climb all over your mate when he/she does not live up to his/her minor promises (like not getting your car washed yesterday when he/she promised). Yes, you’re right: He/she is wrong, but is it worth getting into a huff about? Granted, it’s irritating to count on someone for something and not have them come through, but save the "I’m right and you’re wrong" for the big stuff, like when your mate says he/she will make a commitment to stop swearing in front of your parents and continues to do so.
    7. Forget the "tit for tat." It’s a natural response to want to get even with those who hurt your feelings or make you mad, but what does that do for your relationship? When the sun sets, wouldn’t you rather snuggle up and watch it together than sulk in different rooms? There is never any point in leveling the playing (more…)

    Lovely dress for a dinner date

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    A lot of women are really depress when choosing the right kind of dress they wanted to wear on their date. Even though they have found the right one, but still they can’t have it because they seems to be too small on their size and it makes them very disappointed. And I guess I have to say furious! But I guess that can be fix but it takes time. Well, one of the things I wanted to have at home is a wonderful and useful ellipticals for work out. Even if your at home, you will surely be burning calories and sweating.I really hope I can have one someday. But yes ladies, you can try this one 2 months at least before your date and just watch your diet. A friendly reminder form datingche.

    July 25, 2008

    When to know if your inlove?

    Filed under: Online advice
    • Your sweetheart is flawless. You overlook all her faults and weaknesses. You believe true love can overcome all. This is love at first sight.
    • You are not a very compromising person but your sweetheart had changed you completely. Now you are more flexible and a wonderfully understanding person.
    • You see stars in the morning! No, you haven’t banged your head but feeling the compulsion of love. Your life stops and all you can think of is her/him. You don’t seem to get anything done and every moment your sweetheart’s face comes in front of you.
    • You start missing your love like you haven’t seen her in ages, when actually you just said goodbye.
    • You can’t stop smiling when your beloved is around. You are all happy and joyful. But as soon as he/she leaves, your world collapses in front of you. You become sad and depressed.
    July 23, 2008

    Dating Behaviors That Scare Single Men

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    1. Trash-talking your ex. Don’t talk negatively about an ex-boyfriend in front of a guy you’re dating. I don’t care if you’re on your first date or on your 15th date with a guy, don’t ever trash-talk your ex. Your ex is somebody you dated, invited into your life, and with whom you spent a lot of time. So don’t talk negatively about your ex in any way, because what a guy thinks when you do this is that if he ever becomes your ex that you’re going to trash-talk him the same way. So, when a man asks you about your ex, you can politely say, "We are no longer together. It was a great relationship while it lasted, and I learned a lot." That’s it.

    2. Paranoia Runs Rampant. Here you are dating a man you really like, and the first couple of weeks are going well. Then, that first boys’ night out happens. In the beginning, you send him a text that says, "Have a great time tonight!" As the night progresses, however, seeds of doubt start forming in your mind about what he’s doing, and you start to think "Is he cheating on me? Is he flirting with other women? Where is he right now?" So then, you lob another text in to him asking "What’s going on? What are you doing right now?" Even though he tells you he’s just hanging out with his friends, you proceed to make a major blunder:  You start checking up on him with continuous texts throughout the night. This paranoia will push a man away. So when you are dating a man and he’s out with his friends, respect his "guy time" — it will make you the cool woman he’s always wanted to find. 3. Trash-talking other women. A huge mistake many women make is trash-talking other women in front of the man they’re dating. For example, you are out with him when a woman walks by wearing a skimpy short skirt. You say, "Look how promiscuous that woman looks! I can’t believe she is going around in public like that!" What you are doing when you make comments like this to a guy you’re dating is telling him that you’re not confident in the way you look. It tells him that you don’t love who you are and haven’t embraced your own body. You are planting a seed of doubt in him, causing him to wonder if he he should date someone else who is more confident (and tolerant). Don’t trash-talk other women. It makes you look really insecure. (more…)

    July 21, 2008

    Tips on Dating Older Women

    Filed under: Online advice
    1. Be a gentleman. An older woman wants to be treated with respect, like any woman does. While she might attracted to your rebelliousness or youthful attitude, she still wants you to treat her with good manners.
    2. Don’t get ahead of yourself. Don’t worry about the future until you actually might have one. Take your time and allow the relationship to develop.
    3. Stay calm. You may be excited, but don’t overdo it. Have fun and enjoy your dates, but don’t come on too strong. She has some reservations, too.
    4. Be charming. Don’t underestimate how powerful your smile can be. Use it often, make eye contact, and keep the conversation flowing. Pay attention to what interests you about your date, and show interest in her opinions, experiences, and activities. Be complementary whenever possible, and respond intelligently to whatever she says.
    5. Don’t focus on looks. Give complements, but focus less on her physical appearance — she may be anxious about it. And even if you’re complementary, she may worry that you’re too focused on looks. She wants to be appreciated for who she is, including her intellect and style. Compliments like "That color is lovely on you," or "You look great tonight" are safer than "You’re in great shape."
    6. Have fun. Keep your dates simple and have a good time. Focus on being pleasant, and not getting too far ahead of the relationship. Refrain from talking too long about any one subject without inviting a comment from your date.
    7. Keep conversation interesting and light. Feel free to talk about anything, including your personal lives, past relationships, and love in general, but don’t be the one who brings up the intimate topics first. Be wary of prying too deeply into her private life and secrets, unless the information is voluntarily (more…)

    What Each Kiss Means

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    Message: K"What Each Kiss Means"

    Message: Kiss on the Belly: I’m ready.

    Kiss on the Forehead: I want to be with you for the rest of my life. 

    Kiss on the Cheek: We’re friends. 

    Kiss on the Hand: I adore you. 

    Kiss on the Neck: I want you, now.

    - Kiss on the Shoulder: Your perfect.

    - Kiss on the Lips: I love you.

    WHAT EACH GESTURE MEANS:

    - Holding Hands: We definitely like each other.

    - Touching on the Butt: You’re mine. (more…)

    Dinner Date

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    They say that one way to win your man’s heart is through their stomach. If you have plan on winning your crush or someone that you loved. I suggest that you invit him over to your house and prepare something delicious. Or something that surely he will love to eat. In doing this, maybe you can get some recipe cookbook or search more about some italian recipe over the internet. You know, if you just follow the instruction. You will surely get the right taste and the right cooked food. And select a lovely music and a candle for a romantic dinner. I am sure he will appreciate that.