February 8, 2010
1. Take control: You and your partner are kissing. You gently start to take control by placing your hands on either side of his face, holding his cheeks and guiding his lips. In doing so, you are in control of the amount of pressure and motion of his mouth and, in turn, he feels the warmth of your hands. This can be especially good if your partner’s mouth is too loose or open for you. Then it is your responsibility to kiss him as you LOVE TO BE KISSED.
2. Get him to follow your lead: Stop when you want and tell your partner, ‘I just love kissing. Then look at him and say, ‘Will you show me what it feels like to be kissed by me?’
3. Introduce a fantasy: Tell him that you had a dream the other night about how he was kissing you — and it was fabulous. Whether or not you actually had this dream, what you need to do is have an idea about what you want to ask for. So think ahead to how you want to blend the new kissing style or technique you want with what he already does. Have a kissing on your wonderful and elegant garage floor and later have a amazing moment there. That way, you’re not asking for a completely different thing and won’t risk offending his ego.
4. Praise your partner: Let your partner know when he has kissed you right. If he does something you really like, repeat it on him and ask if it feels as good to him as it did to you. To tweak his style, it’s important that you use one-word directions, such as ‘lighter,’ ‘left,’ ‘right,’ etc. Men have shared with me that sentence-long guidance feels like criticism, while one-word comments sound like gentle direction. Remember that while you may feel that the more you tell, the better, he will be hearing your words through his own sexual gender filter.
5. Repeat: Don’t assume that one time through will work. Men often need reminding (yes, even when it comes to better kissing and better sex. Repeat exercises 1-4 as often as necessary. And enjoy!
Tip #1- Understand flirting
As I said before, many guys have a misconception about the nature of flirting. Flirting is simply about creating sexual tension with a woman. The goal is to joke around with a woman and play fight with her.
Now if you want to create instant attraction, you should start flirting the moment you meet a woman. That way, you’ll create positive sexual tension with her.
Tip #2- Be cocky & funny
A great way to flirt with a woman is to use the cocky/funny technique. The idea behind this attitude is to cultivate a higher status personality which makes women work hard for your attention.
In order to be cocky/funny, you should tease her and focus on getting her to laugh. Just remember that cocky/funny is about having a balance of a confident personality with saying funny things. It’s not about acting like a clown or being too arrogant.
Tip #3- Bring sexual tension into the conversation
When you’re flirting with a woman, you want her to think of you in a sexual way. That’s why it’s important to bring up sex into the conversation.
Now when I’m talking about sex, I don’t mean you should tell her that you want to have sex with her. Instead you should mention different stories about your friends and some of their funny, yet sexual stories.
Also a great technique is to joke that you’re going to marry her. Then go back and forth about what you’ll do when you’re married. Then when she does something wrong, tell her that "it’s over" and you’re getting a divorce. Just remember to have fun and joke around with your interaction.
Tip #4- Touch her
Establishing physical contact is a great way to flirt with a woman. If you can break the touch barrier you’ll take that first step towards creating physical chemistry.
To touch her, concentrate on the conversation and see if you can detect certain moments when a woman is giving you positive vibes. Then touch her when you want to make a point.
Valentine’s Day is just 6 days to go and most guys are really looking for ways on how to celebrate it with their love one. They are thinking of just going out as couple of have a candle light dinner for two or buying special gift to their girl. Women too are also preparing something to give to their guy for this love day. Some also are preparing for surprises or gift giving like psp or
wii or office supplies or car accessories that will always keep their boyfriend reminds him of her. Those are some of the things that keeps women and men during Valentine’s day.
February 6, 2010
1. You stop relationship-building behaviors. In the honeymoon stage of a relationship, which we all know is the first 90 days of pure bliss, you are learning about each other and making efforts to create romantic moods and nice evenings. When you’re in that stage, you are really working at building your relationship. Then, at some point, you start to butt heads with each other. Critical relationship elements deteriorate.
2. You don’t understand each other anymore. The fighting escalates to a place where you no longer feel like you’re understood by your partner. Physical intimacy stops, communication stops, and you are living like roommates.
3. You start punishing each other. When you get to the point of no longer understanding each other, what happens is that you end up just kind of coexisting in the new dynamic. Resentment builds and you get in your head too much. You are no longer about feelings, and you start punishing each other. You want him to play sports to keep him fit like basketball, ping pong and buy him a
ping pong tables and other things needed.
4. You fight less. When you get to the breakup point, you actually fight less with your partner. You fight less because in your mind and heart you start detaching yourself from the other person, and you don’t care as much anymore. You have already made a determination that they don’t understand you, that they will never understand you, and that the relationship just won’t work out.
5. You’ve taken the time to think it through. When you think you might have hit that breakup point, you must tell the person that you’re disconnecting from them. You need to be honest and raw.
- Trust your instincts: When it comes to dating, you have to be responsible for your own safety. So when that little voice inside speaks up and says that something’s not quite right, we urge you to listen and just walk away. Chances are your subconscious picked something up that your conscious mind didn’t.
- Protect your identity: Don’t reveal your identity if you’re not confident that the person is worthy of your trust. It lets you communicate anonymously until you decide to reveal more information.
- Ask for a photo: A picture is worth a dozen clues about a person. If the person you’re talking to won’t send you one, it may be a sign to just walk away.
- Take it slow: Don’t let anyone pressure you into a date. Get to know the person online first, then on the phone. If it doesn’t feel right, say thanks and move on.
- Phone before you date: The phone gives you the best blend of anonymity, privacy, and "social presence" . Use whatever privacy features your phone offers to keep your number safe. If you decide to meet, then…
- Meet publicly: If you choose to meet someone in person, a well-populated, public venue is usually a smart option. It’s always a good idea to have cab fare and your mobile phone with you, and to let others know where you’ll be.
If you are thinking on what to give on Valentine’s Day, then maybe a gift or something that he loves is a perfect gift for him. One thing maybe gadgets or car accessories or a security cameras for his office. This gift will always reminds him of you and will always be grateful for you. So if you have a hard time in giving him something, then look around you and try to pick up the things that you think that he needed and will surely appreciate.
January 17, 2010
After your first few dates. It may be tempting to contact a guy after an amazing date, but resist the urge. Reaching out lessens the thrill of the chase for him.
When you’re drunk. Since phones don’t come with Breathalyzers, it’s up to you to stop yourself from sending a tipsy message — especially one that suggests you two meet up ASAP. Being too available lets a guy know he has all the leverage.
When you’re angry. It’s annoying when a guy flakes, but sending a "Why haven’t you called me?!" inquiry makes you look massively insecure. Avoid angry texts once you’re in a relationship too. "When it’s in writing, you can’t easily take it back,". It’s even smart to ban bitchy humor, which can sound meaner than it is.
When you’re trying to be funny. "When relayed nonverbally, sarcasm and joking can come off as aggressive," according to Kirschner. A dude could read a message like "OMG, you were out of control last night" literally, which makes you sound pissed when you were actually just fondly remembering his funny behavior.
Forget Me Not Flower Gold Pendant Necklace Valentine’s Gift. Wonderful for a gift to your special someone. Real Forget Me Not Flowers preserved in 24K Gold plate to create an exquisite pendant necklace. Their size, color and shape will vary from the picture because not two leaves are alike. Every piece is as unique as the person who wears it.
Most women don’t know what to give to their guy on special occasions or valentine’s day. One of the things in determining what to give on your guy is try to assets what they like or what are their hobbies in life that they really want. If they like to play golf then maybe a golf equipment is a good idea or if they goes to the office then maybe a pen or
wood blinds that will look their office great or their condo fascinating. These are only example and what is really important is that it should comes from the heart with full of love.
One of my fave color flower is yellow and I love tulips and yellow roses. I don’t know but I find them beautiful and lovely like how wonderful life is. Hoping to receive a yellow tulip or yellow roses on Valentine’s Day 
